This site is fairly encompassing and includes books to read as well as tips on deployment and return:  www.hand2handcontact.com

Sample:
Since this is a way of life--a very different way of life--it’s critically
important to become familiar with military family life, as well.  Read “While
They’re at War:  The True Stories of American Families on the
Homefront,” or  “Under the Sabers:  The Unwritten Code of Army Wives,”
among other books.
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